depends.
Some people believe for example
You have a character that has a temper, a bad one. Someone goes into an Accord protected bar to piss off that character, your character knocks that guy out.
now
1. YOU know better but you character doesnt
2. YOU acted in a way you thought your character would.
So your GM SHOULD give you a point, but then again some say he shouldnt.
Of course in some Games, people will use points to place aspects on other characters like "Has bad breath" or "Looks angry" and those games tend to have more fate points.
In one of my games, we lost a player, because he and the GM had very different views on how the game should be run.
We as a group let it simmer for to long and it ended up with us losing that guy. So I say, before your next game, sit down with everyone, and go..."Hey, we need to talk about X Y and Z asap"