I can't help you out locally but checking our your Friendly Local Game Shop (FLGS) is always a good step (as noted above). Colleges are also a good site. Furthermore, I'd be happy to answer any general questions you have about our wonderful hobby, even if you think they're stupid or the like. Finally, there are a variety of play by post sites out there that might work well for you. Play by post games tend to move slower, allowing you more time to think and look up rules.