1. I think good quality writing helps enhance the universe/mythos of a certain series, etc. But bad writing, while it doesn't detract from it, can make me embarassed to be fond of the same thing as the author of said bad writing, and at times, I wonder if the person read/watched the same thing that I did.

2. I'm not going to answer this one, since I'm not the most fond of slash and I tend to get suspicious of the fankiddies that see subtext where I don't.

Or, y'know, we could meet up some time.  I work in Arlington, and live in Herndon.  PM me if you're interested.

For a game store in the area, you'll likely want Game Parlor, either in Woodbridge or Chantilly.  That's the best one in the area.  You can also try Compleat Strategist, in Falls Church.

And, there's a local mailing list, dcrpg on Yahoo Groups.

I recommend going to the local comic shop and just talking to the people there over by the RPG book section. Usually you'll either find a couple people there always looking to add more to there group. If that doesn't work then just look for a posting board in the store where people usually post info on joining there game, and if still nothing ask the clerk. If all these options fail then I suggest trying to look up a group on the internet for your area.

Other than that your only option is too start your own group. If this is the case then peruse the RPG books in the store and ask the clerk what is best to start with. Personally I reccomend stuff by White Wolf since it's very easy to learn and get a game going where as other things like DnD can be very confusing and very time consuming to get started. Then buy some dice print out character sheets and invite friends over to play...Well after you've read the book and come up with an adventure to run for them.