I found a group of writers at Meetup.com. I love my writers group,because they give me feedback just like Neurovore was saying... beyond the this rocks, this sucks level. We have a newspaper copy editor, a horror magazine editor, a retired writing professor who has published in the non-fiction field more than once, a really promising novelist, and a talented short-horror writer, a poet, a stand up comic, some guy who writes his rants about society down in the voices of other characters, and me, who is writing a non-fiction horror memoir.
Start there. Having an educated point of view giving me feedback has made all the difference in the world for me. Good luck!