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Title: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Griffyn612 on October 25, 2017, 03:37:21 PM
Have we discussed Harry's knighting ceremony in light of the Cold Case revelations about the Winter Lady's restrictions?

If Maeve handled Slate's initiation along with his selection, does that mean that there was no technical purpose to Mab's method of initiation with Harry?

Or do we think that Maeve picked Slate, and Mab handled the initiation?
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on October 25, 2017, 03:39:42 PM
Have we discussed Harry's knighting ceremony in light of the Cold Case revelations about the Winter Lady's restrictions?

If Maeve handled Slate's initiation along with his selection, does that mean that there was no technical purpose to Mab's method of initiation with Harry?

Or do we think that Maeve picked Slate, and Mab handled the initiation?

I was going to bring up Lily and her choosing of her knight.  But we really don't know HOW that happened.  It was off screen, so .... hmmmm...
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on October 25, 2017, 04:36:48 PM
Have we discussed Harry's knighting ceremony in light of the Cold Case revelations about the Winter Lady's restrictions?

If Maeve handled Slate's initiation along with his selection, does that mean that there was no technical purpose to Mab's method of initiation with Harry?

Or do we think that Maeve picked Slate, and Mab handled the initiation?
From what I can see, the act is the inception of 'creating' a personified WK undiluted by any influence from previous hosts. So Mab didn't make a new one for Slate, but passed it along to her directly as it was already in existence. Similar to how SK went directly to the SL, and then to Lily while she still held Ruel's(?) head up cupping it in her hand. No boink required. It's the inception that matters.
My queery is on the Mother/Crone... She get's to be so after successfully birthing something? I think the WK is always that something, but is not always successfully done. Kringle likely came from a similar source(just as Pre WK Harry is Tall Runner like Odin and Kringle is Weight lifter like WK Harry). Even though it's part of Mab's power, just like Lash, it's impressed upon something malleable still. Also why she fragged Slate the way she did, knife an stone table an all.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 25, 2017, 09:52:27 PM
I don't think "sexing" the WK is necessary. That was probably a bit of showmanship by Mab along with the live broadcasting. But, I do believe that the new knight has to kill the old knight. That would follow with the predatory nature of the mantle. As far as the Summer courts go, I would guess a more civil transference of power.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Cozarkian on October 25, 2017, 11:05:17 PM
I don't think "sexing" the WK is necessary. That was probably a bit of showmanship by Mab along with the live broadcasting. But, I do believe that the new knight has to kill the old knight. That would follow with the predatory nature of the mantle. As far as the Summer courts go, I would guess a more civil transference of power.

The three Queens might have different ways of passing the mantle, and the Mother's method could be sex.

Knights can die at anytime, so killing the previous knight can't yeah requirement. However I do think there is a secret that the Queen's cannot kill their own knight. That is why Lilly tried to kill Harry, but Maeve personally only ever tried to seduce him. Also, Mab told Harry he would die before he could pull the trigger, not that she would kill him.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 25, 2017, 11:08:32 PM
ohh, good thought about Queens not being able to kill their knights.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Ananda on October 25, 2017, 11:10:28 PM
But, I do believe that the new knight has to kill the old knight. That would follow with the predatory nature of the mantle.
I didn’t read the short story in question, so the prohibition on sex, while sounding really odd and like some sort of weird afterthought by Butcher, is beyond my ken. However, the notion that a wk would have to kill the previous one doesn’t work for practical reasons; I guess most die in the field.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 25, 2017, 11:33:12 PM
I could be wrong. The two instances of a transference involved a summer knight mantle being placed in a hidden unwilling host and a broadcasted ritual of sacrifice against its tortured holder. So, maybe not the typical manner of transference. What do others think are the necessary components of a knight mantle being transferred?
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Ananda on October 26, 2017, 12:06:01 AM
I could be wrong. The two instances of a transference involved a summer knight mantle being placed in a hidden unwilling host and a broadcasted ritual of sacrifice against its tortured holder. So, maybe not the typical manner of transference. What do others think are the necessary components of a knight mantle being transferred?
Loss of the mantle through vessel death or other form of removal and then transference by the empowered bestower to the new vessel. So, forfeiture, possession, transference.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 26, 2017, 12:12:24 AM
So, that would mean that one individual could temporarily be the vessal for two Fae mantles at the same time. Is that possible?
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: raidem on October 26, 2017, 12:22:30 AM
I'm confused.
Any of the Queens can hold the Knight power, and then bestow it upon their chosen.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 26, 2017, 12:27:51 AM
Does there have to be some kind of consensus among queens as to who gets the mantle?
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Snark Knight on October 26, 2017, 12:56:02 AM
I don't think "sexing" the WK is necessary. That was probably a bit of showmanship by Mab along with the live broadcasting. But, I do believe that the new knight has to kill the old knight. That would follow with the predatory nature of the mantle. As far as the Summer courts go, I would guess a more civil transference of power.

Killing the former Knight can't be absolutely necessary to transfer the mantle, or else they'd be screwed when a Knight dies of something other than execution arranged by the Queen at the hands of his successor (most of the historical ones named in CD were killed by the mortal legal system for serial murders) or escapes (a la Tam Lin).
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: raidem on October 26, 2017, 01:42:41 AM
Probably not, though I'm sure they'd take it in mind.  It seems whoever has the knight mantle, bestows it.  If the queen chooses poorly, another queen can come along and take it and bestow it on someone worthy. So, I do think they try to find good recruits to everyone's satisfaction.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 26, 2017, 09:46:16 AM
So if sex with WK is not necessary for Mantle transference then why did Mab do it? Was it a show of power? I know Raidem will say it is Murphy finally getting to do something that she has waited a long time to do and, while Mab certainly showed alot of corresponding emotional intensity with the act, I wonder if their could be other reasons for the "sexing."
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: forumghost on October 26, 2017, 10:08:12 AM
I think it was to send a message, which is why she put it on Free-view for everyone if Faerie. Secondarily, it was a show of power to Harry, to force him to accept the fact that he is now her Bitch. And lastly it was just because Mab is old-school like that and prefers to do the whole Pomp and Ceremony version of bestowing the Mantle instead of the easy way.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 26, 2017, 10:09:59 AM
Yeah, Mab really is the kill multiple birds with one stone kinda person.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on October 27, 2017, 03:54:28 PM
I'm of the opinion that the Sex was not part of the actual transference of the WK mantle.

I think the sex was part of the healing of Harry's back AND a show for all of Fairy Mab's power.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: ~Shadow~ on October 27, 2017, 04:41:38 PM
People really need to brush up on Summer Knight...half this stuff is already dealt with in that book since we're introduced to all these new characters. Of course the Queen(s) can kill their own Knight, that was why Harry was investigating them in the first place. And he consulted on the matter with Bob. And the mantle 'snaps back' to the nearest Queen no matter who or what ends up killing the Knight. That's why Aurora was able to hide it the way she did.

And unless someone wants to argue that Aurora and Lily did the deed as a means of transferring the mantle to her before Aurora turned her to stone...I think it's a fair bet that either sex is NOT a requirement, just a fun bonus, or that only a Queen (not the Lady) can use that method.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Bacchus on October 27, 2017, 05:50:35 PM
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If the queen chooses poorly, another queen can come along and take it and bestow it on someone worthy. So, I do think they try to find good recruits to everyone's satisfaction.
small thing
i disagree.
 The books show us that there have been a few hundred years of bad recruits and Mab is far too intelligent for that to be something she didn't want.

My thoughts are that the stuff about her own knight being a threat to her is true. Knights focused on drugs or rape wouldn't be any threat to her, and until now she didn't need a powerful knight or a loyal winter lady.

 Mab Knows that Ragnarök is coming and over the last decade or so it seems quite clear to me that shes been preparing for the war to end all wars.
side theory now it seems to me that mab has delt with both winter ladys, her handmaiden and winter knight  and destroyed the red court id say Titania needs to be delt with next. shes obviously too unstable and depressed to lead the summer fay into war, she would be a massive liability.

also with Harry's mysterious and powerful lineage and his starborness. There are all kinds of interesting plot lines Jim could come up with for Mab wanting a child with Dresden.   Also we didn't see Mab for at least 9 months after she knighted harry and when we did she was visibly weakened and fay have showed a  strong desire to have a child with Dresden before.  Id say he most likely has a changeling child out there with Mab
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Kindler on October 27, 2017, 06:48:13 PM
small thing
i disagree.
 The books show us that there have been a few hundred years of bad recruits and Mab is far too intelligent for that to be something she didn't want.

My thoughts are that the stuff about her own knight being a threat to her is true. Knights focused on drugs or rape wouldn't be any threat to her, and until now she didn't need a powerful knight or a loyal winter lady.

 Mab Knows that Ragnarök is coming and over the last decade or so it seems quite clear to me that shes been preparing for the war to end all wars.
side theory now it seems to me that mab has delt with both winter ladys, her handmaiden and winter knight  and destroyed the red court id say Titania needs to be delt with next. shes obviously too unstable and depressed to lead the summer fay into war, she would be a massive liability.

also with Harry's mysterious and powerful lineage and his starborness. There are all kinds of interesting plot lines Jim could come up with for Mab wanting a child with Dresden.   Also we didn't see Mab for at least 9 months after she knighted harry and when we did she was visibly weakened and fay have showed a  strong desire to have a child with Dresden before.  Id say he most likely has a changeling child out there with Mab

There's a Word of Jim somewhere that Harry won't have any more of his own kids show up, so if that's the case, I don't think we'll ever see him or her. (Though he shortly thereafter revealed the first line of Peace Talks that indicates
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to screw with us.)
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Cozarkian on October 27, 2017, 06:51:21 PM
Of course the Queen(s) can kill their own Knight, that was why Harry was investigating them in the first place.

Which is precisely why Aurora killed the Summer Knight, right? Oh wait, never mind, she made a deal with the Winter Knight to have him kill the Summer Knight, which would be completely pointless and unnecessary if she was capable of doing it herself.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: dspringer1 on October 27, 2017, 08:04:53 PM
I think there might be only two real requriements to get the winter mantle.
1) A queen who is holding the mantle's power decides to make you the winter knight
2) you accept.   

My guess is that Lilly was tricked into accepting, but acceptance was pretty darn important to Mab which implies it is a critical step. 

The only certainties are: 
It cannot require killing the old knight -- as knights die in battle
It cannot require sex as the ladies cannot engage in sex, but can clearly can create knights
It does not require physical presence as harry became the night while his body physically resided in the church
It does require the action of a queen
The night must be mortal (guess, but believe it is solid)


Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: dspringer1 on October 27, 2017, 08:10:33 PM
I do not think the fact that Aurora used Slate to kill the summer knight proves anything conclusive.   I can think of several good reasons to do so even if Aurora could kill the her own knight.
1) It allows Aurora to honestly say "neither I nor anyone of summer was involved in this murder"
2) It tied Slate more closely to her cause
3) It emotionally distances her from the killing -- after all she probably knew the summer knight for decades and she probably considered him a friend.  As she was wack-a-doodle and a fanatic, she killed him anyway, but that does not mean she did not feel some guilt. 
4) Any evidence left at the scene would point to winter
5) It is possible that Ruhl might have been able to get out a warning to Titania if he was attacked by Aurora.  But attacks by his winter knight counterpart are somewhat normal business.   
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Bacchus on October 27, 2017, 09:05:08 PM
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There's a Word of Jim somewhere that Harry won't have any more of his own kids show up, so if that's the case, I don't think we'll ever see him or her.

oh ... well I obviously didn't know about that WOJ and that pretty much kills my whole theory on that.  Thanks for correcting me , now I have no idea what the sex scene was about.

  maybe some show of dominance or that she owns him but that doesn't really seem right to me.  Maybe having boinked a fae queen will help him in some weird way or allow her to make the knight bond stronger than is normal? i guess body fluids have all types of thaumaturgy uses for tracking and killing people and she has his semen (probably?) but its more her style to just stab him and take some blood.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on October 27, 2017, 09:09:19 PM
Plus, the Knights are made of the the queens, they can Harm the Ladies too, i'm sure. Just look at how Harry thought of being stronger than Maeve... I think that's the loop hole. The Lady goes physically violent/berserker upon her partner, not magically. If the Knight really can take the Lady, perhaps the Knight can take the lady mantle to mantle? His driving him to take, hers driving her to lash out but being overwhelmed...
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 28, 2017, 12:25:17 AM
People really need to brush up on Summer Knight...half this stuff is already dealt with in that book since we're introduced to all these new characters. Of course the Queen(s) can kill their own Knight, that was why Harry was investigating them in the first place. And he consulted on the matter with Bob. And the mantle 'snaps back' to the nearest Queen no matter who or what ends up killing the Knight. That's why Aurora was able to hide it the way she did.

And unless someone wants to argue that Aurora and Lily did the deed as a means of transferring the mantle to her before Aurora turned her to stone...I think it's a fair bet that either sex is NOT a requirement, just a fun bonus, or that only a Queen (not the Lady) can use that method.
Yeah, I do plan to brush up on all the books a few months prior to PT relase date. It is part of my habit.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Snark Knight on October 28, 2017, 01:09:19 AM
Which is precisely why Aurora killed the Summer Knight, right? Oh wait, never mind, she made a deal with the Winter Knight to have him kill the Summer Knight, which would be completely pointless and unnecessary if she was capable of doing it herself.

I think the point was that it's not so much what Aurora actually did as the fact that the three Summer queens weren't automatically off the table due to inability to have done it that has bearing on the matter.

But I wouldn't draw too much of a conclusion about the rules of how the Knight mantle is passed from the events of Summer Knight. Even though Harry didn't understand it until much later, Mab must have surmised she was setting him to hunt someone infected by Nemesis, capable of breaking an unknown set of the usual hard-and-fast rules.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Cozarkian on October 28, 2017, 02:17:12 AM
I think the point was that it's not so much what Aurora actually did as the fact that the three Summer queens weren't automatically off the table due to inability to have done it that has bearing on the matter.

But I wouldn't draw too much of a conclusion about the rules of how the Knight mantle is passed from the events of Summer Knight. Even though Harry didn't understand it until much later, Mab must have surmised she was setting him to hunt someone infected by Nemesis, capable of breaking an unknown set of the usual hard-and-fast rules.

They weren't off the table because Harry doesn't know that the Queen's can't actually kill twlheir own Knight - that isn't information the Far share.

Also, even if the Queens didn't physically kill the Knight they still need to be investigated to determine if they ordered his death or know who did kill him.

Third, Harry was looking for the missing mantle, not just the killer, and one of the summer queens should have had it.

If Aurora could kill the Knight she could have just waited for the the moment the table was about to swap, summoned the Knight to the table, threw him on it and killed him. There wouldn't have been any need to plan ahead and hide the mantle.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 28, 2017, 08:30:40 PM
I guess mysteries are mysteries because something unexplained happened.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on October 28, 2017, 09:18:51 PM
So if sex with WK is not necessary for Mantle transference then why did Mab do it? Was it a show of power? I know Raidem will say it is Murphy finally getting to do something that she has waited a long time to do and, while Mab certainly showed alot of corresponding emotional intensity with the act, I wonder if their could be other reasons for the "sexing."
It is about a stronger ritual. It is about possession. It is about claiming.

The ritual might not be strictly necessary but this is a special knight for a special time and Mab wants to bind him strongly to her so she goes for the really strong stuff. Ritual murder and ritual sex on a very special place.

Cold Case spoiler:
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Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on October 30, 2017, 09:22:13 AM
I think that Maeve believed that everything was Mab's fault.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on October 31, 2017, 06:12:16 PM
She said as much on DR just before she got ventilated.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 02, 2017, 08:56:29 AM
If Ladies can't have sex; then, what were Lily and Fix doing? They seem to be more than friends.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 02, 2017, 03:37:52 PM
If Ladies can't have sex; then, what were Lily and Fix doing? They seem to be more than friends.

It may not be that they cannot have sex.  It's just that Carlos wasn't the right person.

On the other hand, Fix IS a Knight, so he may be okay.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 02, 2017, 06:35:23 PM
It may not be that they cannot have sex.  It's just that Carlos wasn't the right person.

On the other hand, Fix IS a Knight, so he may be okay.
Fix and Lilly knew what they could and could not do. Lilly complained about children she wanted and could not have.



Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Talby16 on November 02, 2017, 06:56:07 PM
Here are some relevant quotes from SK. First from when Harry is questioning the Mothers.
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I held up a hand. "Hold it, hold it. Look, as I understand it, this power of the Summer Knight, his mantle, it can't just exist on its own. It has to be inside a vessel."
"Yes," Winter murmured. "Within one of the Queens, or within the Knight."

Then a few paragraphs later:
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"How does the mantle pass on from one Knight to the next?"
Mother Summer smiled, but the expression was a grim one. "It returns to the nearest reflection of itself. To the nearest vessel of Summer. She, in turn, chooses the next Knight."
I know that these specifically refer to Summer, but for the sake of argument and in absence of other evidence I am going to proceed with the notion that the same applies to Winter. From these quotes we can glean a few things. Number 1, the mantles return to the nearest Queen. Number 2, that Queen then bestows the mantle onto the knight. Number 3, Mother Summer makes no mention of the previous knight having to die for the mantle to be released. I personally believe that there is a way for the Queens to take the mantle from a knight without requiring his or her death. Finally, no mention is made of needing the stone table for the transfer of the mantle. This is further corroborated by the fact that Fix was made the Summer Knight after the Stone Table was in possession of Winter. Also corroborated by logic because if the stone table was needed then the potential exists for the Knight mantle to be stuck within a Queen for months while they waited for the stone table to come back into their possession. This would result in an imbalance between the courts since one side does not have a Knight exerting their power.

Therefore, if we accept that the Knights Mantle could have been removed at any time and held by Mab and then bestowed onto Harry at a time of his choosing, why did she keep Slate alive (besides revenge) and utilize the stone table? My theory stems from two more quotes from a conversation in SK between Lea and Harry.

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I shook my fingers and looked at my godmother. "Let me get this straight. Blood spilled onto the Table turns into power for whoever holds it. Summer now. But Winter, after tomorrow night."

Followed by:
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She frowned at the Table, then began pacing around it, slowly, clockwise, her eyes never leaving me. "The Table is not merely a repository for energy, child. It is a conduit. Blood spilled upon its surface takes more than merely life with it."
"Power," I said. I frowned and folded my arms, watching her. "So if, for instance, a wizard's blood spilled there ..."
She smiled. "Great power would come of it. Mortal life, mortal magic, drawn into the hands of whichever Queen ruled the Table."
My theory is twofold (because Mab never does just one thing when she can accomplish more). First, Mab did not want to just pass the same mantle onto Harry. She wanted to purify or slightly change it. By killing Slate on the table the mantle was transferred to Winter as power. Mab then took that pure power (possibly without the taint of Slate or Maeve) and gave it to Harry as the Knight mantle. Second, killing the mortal on the table also yielded some additional power. Not as much as killing Harry or another wizard, but I am guessing that their was a power gain regardless. If this was then added to the Mantle during the transfer it could possibly give Harry an additional power boost to make him greater then Summer and better able to face what is coming.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 02, 2017, 06:57:23 PM
Fix and Lilly knew what they could and could not do. Lilly complained about children she wanted and could not have.

Having children, and having sex are not the same thing.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Avernite on November 02, 2017, 07:19:31 PM
Personally, I was struck by how, when sealing a definitive bargain, Molly used a kiss.

Maybe the bigger the bargain the bigger the physical intimacy, with Harry's help-for-Knighthood being a particularly big bargain thus requiring serious intimacy (or maybe Mab just always uses that; the Lady-the-flirt a kiss, the Queen-the-mother sex).
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on November 02, 2017, 07:34:16 PM
Personally, I was struck by how, when sealing a definitive bargain, Molly used a kiss.

Maybe the bigger the bargain the bigger the physical intimacy, with Harry's help-for-Knighthood being a particularly big bargain thus requiring serious intimacy (or maybe Mab just always uses that; the Lady-the-flirt a kiss, the Queen-the-mother sex).
Argh!? I hope Harry doesn't have to go at it with either Mother....
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 02, 2017, 10:21:44 PM
Having children, and having sex are not the same thing.
In this day and age. Why would a very old style mantle know about these things?

It probably just goes off when things get critical. It can read the Ladies intentions so it just draws a line at some point. Some simple petting if no intercourse is intended is probably ok. She would know.

Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 03, 2017, 04:01:15 PM
In this day and age. Why would a very old style mantle know about these things?

It probably just goes off when things get critical. It can read the Ladies intentions so it just draws a line at some point. Some simple petting if no intercourse is intended is probably ok. She would know.

LOL ... Yeah, well. 
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Avernite on November 03, 2017, 09:33:35 PM
Argh!? I hope Harry doesn't have to go at it with either Mother....
I meant Queen-the-mother to be opposed to Queen-Mother (with caps). We have the maiden, the mother and the crone, but confusingly the crone is called Mother Winter/Summer.

I was referring to Mab/Titania.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 03, 2017, 11:40:30 PM
There is a country song by Ronnie McDowell released in 1981 that disproves "older women" ideas.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on November 03, 2017, 11:51:43 PM
I meant Queen-the-mother to be opposed to Queen-Mother (with caps). We have the maiden, the mother and the crone, but confusingly the crone is called Mother Winter/Summer.

I was referring to Mab/Titania.
I think the queen is the 'active' one and the Mothers post is reserved for someone whose actually given 'birth' as a prerequisite, namely from the Knights mantle to spawn off it's own offshoot, ala Jolnir/Kringle.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 06, 2017, 04:34:05 PM
They are all queens. 

Queen-to-Be (Lady)
Queen-that-is (Queen)
Queen-that-was (Mother)

Hopefully, for Harry's sake, being the Queen's consort is taken care of already.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: forumghost on November 06, 2017, 06:50:31 PM
They are all queens. 

Queen-to-Be (Lady)
Queen-that-is (Queen)
Queen-that-was (Mother)

Hopefully, for Harry's sake, being the Queen's consort is taken care of already.

It's probably not an issue.

The Lady can't because Being Molly is Suffering/ (Plus Jim wanted to sink that ship).
The Queen can, but seriously, Mab has better things to do with her time. She's a busy lady.
The Mother? Please, she's way too Old for that shit.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 06, 2017, 07:07:36 PM
There are no spares anymore. Sooner or later Mab wants to get new spare ladies, it is duty.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Avernite on November 06, 2017, 07:40:44 PM
It's probably not an issue.

The Lady can't because Being Molly is Suffering/ (Plus Jim wanted to sink that ship).
The Queen can, but seriously, Mab has better things to do with her time. She's a busy lady.
The Mother? Please, she's way too Old for that shit.

Wanted to sink that ship? Then why does Harry's own subconscious support it? ;)
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: forumghost on November 06, 2017, 07:48:01 PM
Wanted to sink that ship? Then why does Harry's own subconscious support it? ;)

Because Harry's Subconscious is meant to be a bad guy, more or less.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Avernite on November 06, 2017, 07:50:51 PM
Because Harry's Subconscious is meant to be a bad guy, more or less.
And girls want bad boys, in literary-world. If the ship had to be sunk, Skin Game has some decidedly weird pieces (if instead it's supposed to hang around incomplete, both Cold Case and Skin Game make sense).
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on November 06, 2017, 08:29:46 PM
They are all queens. 

Queen-to-Be (Lady)
Queen-that-is (Queen)
Queen-that-was (Mother)

Hopefully, for Harry's sake, being the Queen's consort is taken care of already.
That's the precise word they use to describe the knights in SK, consort to the queens, plural lol.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: forumghost on November 07, 2017, 07:33:45 AM
And girls want bad boys, in literary-world.

Oh I'm well aware. After all Murphy only decided that she was willing to give it a go after Harry sold himself to the devil and commitment genocide on the same day. Before that she spent a decade or so jerking Harry around.

But leaving Molly stuck with unrequited love for all eternity is just too much like something Jim would do for me to think anything else.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 07, 2017, 08:33:38 AM
Girls will always go for the thrill and excitement of bad boys over the comfort and ease of good guys or nerdy guys. Until those girls get tired of going to therapy or the ER due to abuse. Then they give the good guys a try.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 08, 2017, 04:01:52 PM
Girls will always go for the thrill and excitement of bad boys over the comfort and ease of good guys or nerdy guys. Until those girls get tired of going to therapy or the ER due to abuse. Then they give the good guys a try.

Boy aint that the truth!
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 08, 2017, 10:23:17 PM
I had a college buddy and we had long conversations about that point.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 09, 2017, 06:09:12 PM
Those conversations are going on all the time.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 09, 2017, 10:32:22 PM
While the girls we are interested in are going out with the biggest @$$Hole they can find. Alpha Male Syndrome.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Ananda on November 10, 2017, 04:48:20 AM
Girls will always go for the thrill and excitement of bad boys over the comfort and ease of good guys or nerdy guys. Until those girls get tired of going to therapy or the ER due to abuse. Then they give the good guys a try.
Woman here. This made me laugh. This sounds like what guys who can’t get dates with the women they’d prefer to date say to make themselves feel better. :P I was definitely a party girl, out at clubs all the time, dancing, having fun, looking good and I never looked for the biggest jerk to be with. I can only speak for myself, but what I looked for was intelligence, wit and confidence in guys (and a certain level of fitness and attractiveness if I’m honest, though intelligence and wit are part of attractiveness). I guess the guys who bemoan that “girls” seek out these abusive guys instead of “nice” guys are the ones who lack self confidence. I also guess there were plenty of women who would have gone out with them if they asked and approached the right ones instead of the unobtainable (by them) ones. Butcher’s books contain the male nerd fantasy of all these super models being interested in the unattractive geeks. It is fantasy story, though.

I’ve been married to a “bad boy” for many years. I never went to the medical emergency or a therapist for abuse. That’s just absurd. Attractive, confident men are just as likely to be “nice” guys. :P

Specifically on the MurphyDresden topic that spawned your “poor nice guys” tangent, I don’t know why Murphy would even consider getting involved with Dresden. That guy is an emotional train wreck and his life is a mess now. Years earlier, he was just a weird guy she knew who lived in a basement and had no money. They had no real connection then, so I’d be shocked if a successful career police officer would get into a relationship with him at that point.

Also, the Molly crush thing is so silly; no way would she be so into him, I think. That one, I just chalk up to nerd wish fulfillment fantasy. :D
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 10, 2017, 05:38:13 AM
You know Jerks have great confidence in themselves. It is often intelligent people that doubt everything including themselves.  :)

As a tutor and basically her only protection against the wardens swords Harry had great power over Molly and Harry becomes quite a different person when doing his magic which was Molly’s main obsession so one form of unhealthy attraction at some point was logical.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: forumghost on November 10, 2017, 08:11:38 AM
Specifically on the MurphyDresden topic that spawned your “poor nice guys” tangent, I don’t know why Murphy would even consider getting involved with Dresden. That guy is an emotional train wreck and his life is a mess now. Years earlier, he was just a weird guy she knew who lived in a basement and had no money. They had no real connection then, so I’d be shocked if a successful career police officer would get into a relationship with him at that point.

In Murphy's case it's because she's just as much of a train wreck as far as personal relationships are concerned.

Married her first husband when she was 17. He was way older than her and they had a terrible on-off relationship. Her second husband was an A-Hole that left her because she refused to spend her life pregnant and in the kitchen, and then Married her younger sister (whom she also doesn't get along with) as a follow up.

As far as we know her next relationship was with Kincaid, an immortal demonic murderer for hire. And then there's the newly formed/forming relationship with Harry. Despite having spent years finding new excuses to avoid a relationship with him, now that he's constantly a hair's breath away from murdering and/or raping anyone within shouting distance, she's suddenly keen.

So yeah... Either Murphy is very much part of the "All Women want Bad Boys" Cliche, or she's just self-destructive to a degree that puts Harry to shame.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 10, 2017, 08:53:41 AM
 I often wished they did one of those "Psychology of" or "Philosophy of" books on the Dresden Files. But,  as far as what Ananda stated, "bad boys" don't always send "good girls" to the hospital or therapy. But, it happens enough times for it to be a common theme of a Cops or Jerry Springer episode. Nerd wish fulfillment is a real thing and it kept comic books rolling for almost a century. Molly did try to follow her mother's footsteps with Harry. Charity was rescued by and married a hero of goodness and faith. Molly wanted a darker hero, hence Harry.
Forumghost and Arjan had some good points. The mutual relationship trainwreckness of Harry and Murphy is a given. Murphy expressed feelings that WK Harry is more dangerous and out-of-control. Didn't stop her from saying "yes" to a relationship.And jerks do have more confidence than intelligent people. Jerks "know" they are right without reason and that iswhere they get their surety and confidence. Intelligent people think they may be right but are waiting for proof or a valid argument that disproves their idea.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 10, 2017, 11:25:02 AM
Confidence also comes from success. That might be what makes it attractive.

So if girls fall for confident men they get even more confident which will spiral into....
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 10, 2017, 03:22:22 PM
The other part of the Women seek out bad boys who are bad for them is also all the complaints we hear from these same women.

As to Molly not following Charity's footsteps, that's not true.  Harry saved her from a big bad, and he's a STRONG man of faith.  Not in Christianity, but he has very strong faith.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Arjan on November 10, 2017, 03:53:12 PM
We see Harry from inside his own head which distorts a few things, other people see him differently.

The first time Karen really wanted Harry was just after they destroyed the red court. That was a real display of strength and confidence. Harry in action is quite different from normal Harry as Karen mentioned in aftermath.

Now Harry has changed again. The mantle made him stronger, more confident and he had just invited her to go to hell and back with him. That is all very different from a geek in a basement. That was not enough in Cold Days because strength is a problem if you have not enough control.

I do not think people fall for bad, they fall for strength and confidence and sometimes being bad is confused with being strong.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 10, 2017, 04:44:03 PM
We see Harry from inside his own head which distorts a few things, other people see him differently.

The first time Karen really wanted Harry was just after they destroyed the red court. That was a real display of strength and confidence. Harry in action is quite different from normal Harry as Karen mentioned in aftermath.

Now Harry has changed again. The mantle made him stronger, more confident and he had just invited her to go to hell and back with him. That is all very different from a geek in a basement. That was not enough in Cold Days because strength is a problem if you have not enough control.

I do not think people fall for bad, they fall for strength and confidence and sometimes being bad is confused with being strong.

I can see this.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Cozarkian on November 10, 2017, 04:59:46 PM
The other factor people always overlook is challenge. We are all aware of the stereotype that men like a challenge when it comes to women - the traditional concept of courting, guy chases girl until she catches him, advice to women not to give it up on the first date, etc..., but nobody ever stops to think that many women also enjoy a challenge. Many nice guys make the mistake of being dutiful and available to the women at all times, which makes the nice guy boring. "Jerks" on the other hand flirt with multiple women, wait a few days a call, and generally don't act like the girl is the center of their world, all of which makes them more desirable by adding challenge to the mix.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 10, 2017, 11:58:29 PM
I would rather be nice and boring than have to deal with pain and drama. Life gives me too much already.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Ananda on November 13, 2017, 04:41:08 AM
In Murphy's case it's because she's just as much of a train wreck as far as personal relationships are concerned.

Married her first husband when she was 17. He was way older than her and they had a terrible on-off relationship. Her second husband was an A-Hole that left her because she refused to spend her life pregnant and in the kitchen, and then Married her younger sister (whom she also doesn't get along with) as a follow up.

As far as we know her next relationship was with Kincaid, an immortal demonic murderer for hire. And then there's the newly formed/forming relationship with Harry. Despite having spent years finding new excuses to avoid a relationship with him, now that he's constantly a hair's breath away from murdering and/or raping anyone within shouting distance, she's suddenly keen.

So yeah... Either Murphy is very much part of the "All Women want Bad Boys" Cliche, or she's just self-destructive to a degree that puts Harry to shame.
Remember, Butcher wrote her. She’s not a real person. His depictions of women aren’t the best. I enjoy the story, but his female characters didn’t really ring true to me. He’s certainly mot alone in that, though. On the other side, Anne Rice’s male characters often came off as as middle aged women, especially in her later books. The funny thing about her female characters is they mostly were uninteresting or tried to act very male. There were a few good ones, though.

Also, failed past relationships don’t compare to suicide guy who lives on a haunted island, is under the control of an amoral faerie queen and is at the center of an inter dimensional war. Dresden’s life is terrible. 
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Avernite on November 13, 2017, 06:10:18 AM
Remember, Butcher wrote her. She’s not a real person. His depictions of women aren’t the best. I enjoy the story, but his female characters didn’t really ring true to me. He’s certainly mot alone in that, though. On the other side, Anne Rice’s male characters often came off as as middle aged women, especially in her later books. The funny thing about her female characters is they mostly were uninteresting or tried to act very male. There were a few good ones, though.

Also, failed past relationships don’t compare to suicide guy who lives on a haunted island, is under the control of an amoral faerie queen and is at the center of an inter dimensional war. Dresden’s life is terrible.
Plus he has killed all his girlfriends, or at least tried to.

Granted Luccio wasn't his girlfriend yet when he did it, and there were extenuating circumstances both there and with Susan, but damn. Would not want to be Murphy!
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 13, 2017, 10:03:31 AM
Remember, Butcher wrote her. She’s not a real person. His depictions of women aren’t the best. I enjoy the story, but his female characters didn’t really ring true to me. He’s certainly mot alone in that, though. On the other side, Anne Rice’s male characters often came off as as middle aged women, especially in her later books. The funny thing about her female characters is they mostly were uninteresting or tried to act very male. There were a few good ones, though.

Also, failed past relationships don’t compare to suicide guy who lives on a haunted island, is under the control of an amoral faerie queen and is at the center of an inter dimensional war. Dresden’s life is terrible.
It is not a competition as to who is the bigger trainwreck. Harry will usually win that one. I am saying that as far as relationships go, neither Murphy nor Harry have the best track record. Women often don't know how to write men. Men often don't know how to write women.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: jonas on November 13, 2017, 10:13:44 AM
It is not a competition as to who is the bigger trainwreck. Harry will usually win that one. I am saying that as far as relationships go, neither Murphy nor Harry have the best track record. Women often don't know how to write men. Men often don't know how to write women.
If the veil between sexes were that easily pierced every would be doing it.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 13, 2017, 05:51:45 PM
Veil for you, brick wall for me.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Ananda on November 14, 2017, 12:02:33 AM
Plus he has killed all his girlfriends, or at least tried to.

Granted Luccio wasn't his girlfriend yet when he did it, and there were extenuating circumstances both there and with Susan, but damn. Would not want to be Murphy!
Haha! Good point! And, Lucio was mind-controlled into a non-consensual relationship with him! And, Dresden is constantly bringing up Molly’s traing bra. What a creep!

Wardenferry, what I’m saying about Murphy and Dresden being a terrible couple comes down to looking at it through a normal woman’s point of view.

Dresden was not someone she really felt much for early on. She was a successful, career orientated woman and Dresden was a weird poor guy who lived in a shitty basement with no electricity. He acted like a complete whackadoodle from her point of view. She had zero reason to be interested in him. Also, he’s not described as particularly attractive as far as I recall.

Midway through the story, she learns more about him, but he’s still this bizarre outsider who lies to her regularly. And, he didn’t get richer or better looking.

Later, coming to where we are now, his life is in such a state of ruin that, even with her loss of career and sense of identity (“I’m a cop, Harry”), it’s still a terrible idea to get involved with him just because she’s used to him. He is living at the extreme edge now more than ever. There is really no future there for her; just drama, trauma and death on all sides. She’s in her mid or late forties now? There was never any real passion between them. This getting together out of comfort or being used to him (settling essentially), I could see, if not for the death and destruction on all sides.

So, no, I don’t see Murphy’s reason for it. Dresden’s, yes. Murphy’s, no.

The Molly thing just seems like pure fantasy like Andi and Butters.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: wardenferry419 on November 14, 2017, 01:38:12 AM
I think Harry's death changed Murphy's tune. People often realize something when it's too late; this time it really wasn't too late.
Title: Re: Knight Ceremony [Cold Case Spoilers]
Post by: Rasins on November 21, 2017, 06:53:03 PM
I think Harry's death changed Murphy's tune. People often realize something when it's too late; this time it really wasn't too late.

I think this, coupled with Murphy's world being turned upside down are all factors.