DUDE, hold up, cause I have a woj from FB about not knowing the consequences of your choices is a fact of life. Note that the fae enchant food all the time too...
But wizards are not the Fae, are they? And DUDE, this smacks of blaming the victim.. I don't think this is what Jim meant or would apply to someone unknowingly being drugged and raped..
Jim Butcher Yeah, but all your choices count, man. Not just the ones where someone says, "Are you absolutely sure about your answer."
Making a choice is stating who you are. Unequivocally. You can talk as much as you want about whatever goodness you want--your actions are what matter. Those choices, in some cases to /take lives/, weren't subconscious.
Molly said, "I'm in line with Winter." A BUNCH of times. And making statements like that add up--not because you're initialing a point on a contract for a lawyer, but because you are /changing yourself/ by making choices like that.
Creating life, ending life. Those are the heaviest hitting choices, the ones that truly matter, the ones that are irrevocable.
Choosing not to be self-aware enough to own what you're doing is a choice as well. One Molly didn't make. She knew about bargains. She knew the score. She didn't know how deep was the water she was getting into, but she ran and jumped off the cliff.
While true, Molly made choices, she had some idea of what they were, but she chose not to think that there would be consequences down the road for accepting Lea's "training.." Not the same at all as accepting a drink because you are thirsty or to be sociable without the anticipation that it might be drugged and you could end up having sex against your will.. Especially if you have no clue that the person you are with is capable of drugging that drink.. It isn't the same as drinking to the point of drunkenness, that is a choice.. But even the consequences of that are not totally the victim's fault in the eyes of the law..
But let's go back to Molly's original choice, to go into the minds of her friends to "help" them stop their addiction... Her friends did chose to take drugs to the point of doing physical harm to themselves.. However that did not acquit Molly from her choice to break the Law by entering their minds without their permission to alter them. Her friend have to be responsible for their original choices, but so does Molly..
Yes, while it is a choice to accept a drink or to drink from a glass or cup handed to you, your responsibility... That doesn't get the one who drugged the drink in the first place to have sex against the other person's will off the hook in terms of responsibility.